Friday, December 2, 2016

Do girls like it when they wake up to a "Good Morning Beautiful" text even though they are not interested in you?

Probably not. Some women like compliments, especially from strangers. Some do not like that at all.

Some women are very particular about what you're complimenting. Some would rather be recognized for their intelligence than their beauty, even if they possess both. 

Some women might find what you're suggesting flattering, others creepy and stalkerish.

A good concept to understand though is that we (all human beings) aren't interested in other people because they compliment us and see how great we are.

We're interested in other people because we find them interesting. We're attracted to their physical beauty, their success, their confidence, their personality, to something about them that is compelling to us.

Compliments require no effort and if given too often, like anything else, become less special and meaningful, and instead become boring and mundane.

Compliments don't make the complimenter seem more interesting. A beautiful woman gets compliments from many men, it does nothing to set you apart.

A compliment from someone a woman has already found interesting might catch her attention, but she only really cares because there's something already attractive to her about the complimenter and this compelling person has shown an interest in her as well. The compliment didn't win her over or change her mind about the person giving it.

So, what is the lesson for you?

Women aren't vending machines. You can't put compliments, gifts, shows of affection, etc in and get a girlfriend, sex, or her interest back out.

If a woman isn't attracted to you, for whatever reason, then that isn't going to change just because you're a nice guy or give her lots of attention and gifts. 

In fact, that may make you even less attractive to her. It may make you seem pathetic because you don't understand what makes women feel attracted to an individual (in general) or aren't assertive and confident enough to move on and find another woman who is interested in you. She may also feel like you think she is some object you can buy, that you believe you can bribe your way into her pants.

No self-respecting, confident women (and let's be honest, those are the most attractive traits a woman can have!), is going to appreciate those sentiments coming from someone who wants to date her.

If a woman really just isn't in to you, be a man and go find one who is. Don't waste your time harassing one who isn't.

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